Monthly Archives: December 2011
Dating in Asia
I have not posted in a while due to a holiday in Asia, Thailand and Laos specifically. Dating in Asia is a very different scene then in most Western countries. It was unbelievably easy.
I am no expert on the social and economic situation as I was just a tourist. People talk a considerable amount about the sex worker scene etc. in Thailand, however I was not there for that and I am unwilling to directly pay for sex. We all indirectly pay most of the time, in one way or another. Marriage has been compared to legalized and institutionalized prostitution. I don’t specifically agree with this comment but I do understand how some people come to that conclusion. However most of the time to use generalities the man pays for the drinks, the meals, the gifts, etc. It was no different in Bangkok except it was an amazing amount cheaper. A cocktail in a nice club was about 5 dollars. In a roadside dive you can have a beer for a $1.50.
Dating Advice for Men
It seems the longer I write this blog the more I realize that we sometimes need to go right back to basics. I am at fault in the area that I tend to expect people to know what I already do and sometimes do not do a good job as a teacher. SO this article titled dating advice for men is really the bare bones basics on what you need to know right from the start. There is no advanced seduction techniques or specific how to on certain topics, there is enough of that in other areas of this blog if you go looking and read it. There is actually a PhD course on how to get laid, have great relationships, and attract as many women as you like on this site. This post is basic tips on what you need to start with. Read on for dating tips for men.
Why learn to pick up women?
A little while back I was giving a talk to a group of men who had been mostly unsuccessful with women. They were all there to learn how to meet, pick up, and have sex with multiple women and on a regular basis. It is actually not that difficult to learn and I would say most guys short of The Hunchback of Notre Dame can, with some work and conscious effort, get there in a matter of a couple months. I have put the majority of the information you need to achieve success with women on this site already and I will continue adding to it.
The one question that I was asked was “Why do I do this?” I knew the answer immediately, however I wanted to prolong it for a few minutes to make a larger impact. So I asked the audience, “why are you here?” As usual with a group of people that are somewhat self-conscious with lower self-esteem no one wanted to answer, no one wanted to stand out from the crowd. This is the exact reason they have not been successful with women and social interaction in the first place.
How to Read Body Language – Part 1
One of the most important things in communication is non-verbal communication. I believe that more then 70% of communication is non-verbal and also the most important part of a conversation is shown not spoken. If you want to be good with women you will need to study and pay attention to how to body language, yours as much as hers.
We are always reading body language constantly and we react to it without consciously realizing it. It effects how we feel and think about a conversation, how we respond and what we say. If there is one thing that can improve your success in social settings more then anything else a good study and understanding of body language is the key. Warning here though, you have to actually pay attention, not only to her body language but also to your own.
One of the absolute experts on how to read body language is Joe Navarro who took things to a whole new level as a trainer for the FBI. If they believe it is important for human interaction, shouldn’t you?