Dating Advice for Men
It seems the longer I write this blog the more I realize that we sometimes need to go right back to basics. I am at fault in the area that I tend to expect people to know what I already do and sometimes do not do a good job as a teacher. SO this article titled dating advice for men is really the bare bones basics on what you need to know right from the start. There is no advanced seduction techniques or specific how to on certain topics, there is enough of that in other areas of this blog if you go looking and read it. There is actually a PhD course on how to get laid, have great relationships, and attract as many women as you like on this site. This post is basic tips on what you need to start with. Read on for dating tips for men.
Dating tips for men – Qualities that attract women
Clean yourself up
No woman wants to be with a guy who smells bad, just like you would run away from a girl that smelled like a fish market. BO is not attractive, forget about the pheromones, and musk and all that crap and go have a shower. Make sure you cloths is washed and pressed if they need it, don’t smell a pair of socks in the hamper and decide they are fine. If they are not freshly washed wait an hour to go out while you sit in the laundry mat. Women do not want to be with a guy that smells like BO and shit. You might think it is fine and a little aftershave will cover it up, it won’t.
Have fun and enjoy yourself
Everyone wants to have fun and be with people who are fun, even if you don’t have a connection with the person you are talking to there is probably something about them that you can enjoy and others will notice. Women do not want to be with a guy that is sitting their brooding and not enjoying himself. A side benefit, if you don’t get to take the girl home that night at least you had a good time anyways.
Popularity is always good
Being popular is like social proof to a woman that you are worth her time. If you are out with a large group of friends and having a good time you will be more attractive to the women. In her mind, if other people like you there must be a good reason. However even if you are not mister popularity you can fake it and talk to lots of people.
Happiness is contagious
Ever seen the woman across the room who is always smiling and laughing? You wanted to be with her didn’t you even if she wasn’t a ten. This goes back to being fun. If you are a genuinely happy person more people will want ot meet and spend time with you. If you are not a normally happy person, fake it, smile at yourself in the mirror, amazingly if you do this enough it will actually improve your mood.
Be dominant and an alpha male
Generally this is the guys job in a relationship, most women prefer to be led and have the man make decisions. Don’t be an arrogant twat but be sure you are ready to make the decisions. If she asks what do you want to eat? Don’t say “oh whatever you would like, or I don’t know” You want Italian, say it. Make decisions and she will respect you more.
Be independent
Be able to take care of yourself and be on your own, nothing will send women running faster then a needy guy that dotes on them and has to have them there for everything. Keep your back straight and pay attention to your posture, look confident and be independent. If you live with you mom who still does your laundry and you are over 20 years old and not in school. Time to get a job and your own place. Act like you don’t need the girl and she will come after you.
Be Calm
Women will pick up on your mind set and emotions faster then other men will, they are really good at it as a matter of fact. So keep yourself calm, mellow and act natural. Remember, the worst she can tell you to do is f*&k off, I am sure that has happened before and you are still alive. If she does respond like that, so what she is a bitch and better you learned now then later, move on. Just stay calm and in control if you act all nervous she will to.