Day 4 – Approach Anxiety
Well it’s day four now and we have a new look, clean home, and have either been to a new social function or have it planned. You are well on your way to doing a horizontal bump and grind with a new hot lady. So what do we do today? If you started on Monday as suggested it is now Thursday with the weekend coming up.
Today you are going to have to step out of your comfort zone, and shake things up a little, lets go meet some women. We are going to meet some random woman, doesn’t matter if they are hot or not we just need practice meeting and talking to people, preferably women. So lets try it in a public place.
Before going out
Step one before you leave the house is go back to day one and clean yourself up, shower, brush your hair, put on one of the shirts we pressed on Monday and get ready to head out. First things first though, look in the mirror and make sure you are looking your best, if you shaved your head to get rig of the mullet make sure it is a fresh clean shave. Now look at yourself, you look better then you have in years and you know it, everyone else is going to notice you as well and that’s what you want. You look good, tell yourself that no matter how stupid you think you sound saying it.
Take public transport
No car today, your taking public transport, get on the bus or subway and start looking around, if you are sitting and a woman comes in offer her your seat and stand up then strike up a conversation with her. Don’t worry about not feeling confident or comfortable, just ask her where she is going, if she is carrying something interesting comment on it. If she starts talking allot shut up and listen read the article “How to talk to a woman” before going out. If you feel like a twat forget about it, no one you know can see you and if it goes really badly so what you never need to see her again. Hold your back straight and your head high. This is practice and training. You need to approach and start a conversation with at least 8 women today, 4 of them women you would want to sleep with. Lets be a little realistic here also, if your 55 and she is 19, you might want to sleep with her but unless you are giving her directions on how to get to her 21 year old boyfriends house your probably going to come across as a pervert in this setting. It is very possible for you to get the early 20’s girls even in your 50’s but probably not on the bus.
Short of moving to South East Asia I would suggest sticking to women more your age when looking in public places like the subway or bus, lets say no more then 15 years younger then you, assuming you are 35 up. If you are under 35, the worlds your oyster today.
Move locations if it’s not working
If you are not having any success finding cute women on the bus to chat up head downtown or to a large mall, look for coffee shops and diners where there are women sitting by themselves. Approach them, talk to them, get practice at it. Don’t be shy, you don’t need to, the worse that will happen is she might tell you to “f**k off” I have never actually had that happen when approaching women, however that is the absolute worst thing that can happen to you here. So what, I say. I am sure someone has told you that before and your still alive it didn’t kill you and made no difference at all. When approaching any woman always remember, if I stay here and don’t talk to her I will never get a chance to sleep with her, If I go over and talk to her I might get the chance. I have absolutely nothing to loose and everything to gain. It’s like playing the lotto if you could play the lotto and not have to put your five bucks down but still had a chance to win wouldn’t you be crazy not to? The same thing with approaching women, you have everything to gain and absolutely nothing to loose. Plus it is even better then our lotto example since every time you do it, succeed or fail; you learn something and are that much better the next time.
Go for the phone number
If things are going really good, go for the phone number so you can keep in touch with her later and move the relationship along from meeting on the bus or a coffee shop to a date later and maybe she will even touch your winky. Read ‘How to get a girls phone number here’
So you are going to approach and speak to at least eight women today. Get to it and tell us how it goes in the comments section.