Bad Boy Vs Good Guy
Bad Boy Vs Good Guy, if you look around and it always seems like the bad boys and getting sex and the good guys are going home alone, you are observant. It’s true, you can analyze it all you want and we will a little bit here but if you’re the good guy you can complain all you like but you will still be going home alone to jerk off tonight while the bad boy will be taking the girl home that you were chasing.
The Bad Boy
So first why do women go for the bad boy and not the good guy? Seems illogical and not the best for their security, future, reputation, etc. Well it is illogical, but by thinking that way we are using logic to try and understand emotions, which never works. So why did the valedictorian go home with the guy on the motorcycle and not you? Because it was exciting, he was self confident, and he showed her that he is an alpha male. He also turned the tables on her and made her dote on him instead of the other way around, he didn’t fawn over her and tell her how beautiful she is, how wonderful she is, and by her drinks all night. He didn’t compliment her verbally at all, he did however look at her in a way that said she was hot.
When he did speak with her, he acted like it didn’t matter in anyway if he slept with her or not because it made little difference to him, he had a dozen other women who would go to bed with him and he was in no way desperate. He presented a challenge and everyone loves a challenge. Many women also want to be able to fix a guy, warning here though, as soon as you are “fixed” it’s game over, she will be looking for the next wounded bird to fix.
The Good Guy
Now the good guy approached the same women. He said how nice she is, told her how beautiful she was and bought her a bunch of drinks. Given a chance he will probably send her flowers in the next couple of days. Seems a no brainer right, who should she go with?
Well by complimenting her you have told her exactly what you think, there is no mystery left. She doesn’t have to wonder what you think about her, you probably told her you were in college and going to become a doctor, lawyer or computer programmer. There is no excitement left. She will probably be your great “friend”. You also didn’t act sexual towards her because you didn’t want to seem to be “coming onto her”. You didn’t escalate the situation at all.
The main difference between these two guys;
Good Guy
- Approached and acted all polite
- Complimented her and fawned over her
- Pretended he wasn’t after sex or acted desperate like he had never had it
Bad Boy
- Let her approach him or put her into a place where she felt like she had
- Made her well aware without being creepy that he is a sexual person and is interested
- Kept and air of mystery about himself and got her interested
- Had the self confidence to escalate the encounter
Difference between Good vs Bad
The main difference between these two is the bad guy will be much more successful with women but the good guy will be much more successful in life, carrier, etc. The good guy will probably eventually get the girl for a long term relationship, once she has had her excitement with all the bad boys.
Both at this point in time are purely after her for sex however the bad guy has become better at not looking desperate and at the same time pushing her buttons to get her excited and building sexual tension. He has learned how to make her pursue him, instead of the other way around. Women like the chase as much as men do, most men just never give them the chance.