How can I get a Girlfriend

I really shouldn’t have to write this article.  I would think it is obvious., but if you have not had a shower in a week and your scent would knock a buzzard off a shit wagon, you are going to have a hard time attracting a girlfriend no matter how well my system works. Also either grow a beard or shave. Four days growth does not look good on anyone. Groom Yourself!

Now what I need you to do is look in a mirror, not a little one, a full length one. Really look at what you see! Could you use a hair cut? Are your cloths torn and ripped? I am not so concerned with you looking like Brad Pitt, but you should look good enough to go to an interview, since really that is what you are going to be doing.  You are going to be interviewed. Women are going to interview you as a potential mate, and sex partner.

So when you go to the club to find a girlfriend you need to look presentable, I am not saying you should wear a three piece suit and tie, but you should be clean, hair properly cut and groomed, shaved, and dressed decently. I once had a tailor and when I was looking at a new suit and living on the west coast I said, “Every time I wear a suit I am over dressed.”  He replied, “There is no such thing as over dressed, if you are the best dressed person in the room you command attention and feel good about yourself.” I didn’t realize at the time how true that was.

When you are dressed better then everyone in the room you feel good about yourself, you exude self confidence and women can pick up on this. There is no greater aphrodisiac to women then a man with self-confidence that is not arrogant.

So if you want to find a girlfriend you are going to first have to look at yourself and make yourself boyfriend material, I would suggest getting a subscription to GQ magazine if you are not good with style and find something that suits you there. You will need to dress the part for the venue you are going, but always try to dress just one step above every other guy in the room.

If everyone else is wearing torn jeans and a T-Shirt and you show up in new jeans and a polo shirt you are going to stand out from the crowd and look more interesting and cultured. If everyone else is wearing a dress shirt, I will put on a full suit. Anything to make me look superior to my rivals, and that’s what they are, your rivals, since they will be trying to sleep with the same hot chicks you are after.  Don’t take this to the extreme like Elton John, your not him, he could run through a crowd naked wearing nothing but a mullet and get laid by 19 year olds at 65. If you reading this you are probably not a multimillionaire musician so don’t try to be one.

Now your ready to go out, look back in that mirror, would you date you? Are you clean shaven, dressed decently, wearing antiperspirant, and ready to rock some chick world? If you are go get em.