How can I get a Girlfriend

So you want to try your luck with online dating? Well first let me say I don’t really recommend it, I would rather see you get out there and meet people in real life which will help you in the long term with relationship and approach skills. Don’t fall into the trap of sitting in front of your computer all night in online chat rooms with someone on the other side of the world. If you still want to know how to meet girls online, keep reading.

If you are going to give it a shot though you can easily have an edge over all the other guys, remember guys out number women online by a mile and then some. However a large majority are idiots and use the anonymity of a computer screen to do and say things they would never do in real life. Like ask a woman to send naked picture and fuck within two minutes of meeting them.

Meeting women in chat rooms

So how do you set yourself apart in a chat room, well the easiest way, be polite and be yourself. Don’t say and do crap that you wouldn’t do in real life. Be curious and if someone is being an idiot and just trolling and trying to rile things up, use that ignore button that many places have put on the site.

I would like to say a large number of people have met and formed long term fulfilling relationships online and it can work. The one major advantage it has is the sense of security that both people feel and can open up and tell each other things that they would never do in real life. With the more openness and honesty though comes a lot more BS and making crap up. If you are serious about finding a girlfriend this way don’t lie to her and just be yourself, most women will really appreciate that since the vast majority is says all kinds of stupid crap.

I also know a number of guys who have specialized in this and done very well; going from chatting for a few hours to sleeping with the lady the first night they actually meet. A few ground rules you should follow, if you are looking for a long term relationship then like I said be yourself and I guess the sky is the limit, if you are looking to date the women and be a bit of a player then limit the people you speak with for any amount of time to people local to you. You will want to keep it to people that live within a reasonable travel time as there is no point wasting your time on women that live a thousand miles away.

Meeting Women on Dating Sites

If you are going to use dating sites remember that not all is always as it seems, many woman are not women at all, same as the chat rooms, pictures can lie and people are not always honest. Please just keep that in mind. On the dating sites though you will need to stand out, most women don’t post, they troll and might send a note to guys here and there. You job will be to post profiles that stand out from the crowd. How do you do that, again be honest in what you are looking for and whom you are. Use your best picture and post on every site you can, in this case it is a numbers game the more lines you put in the water the more likely to get a bite. My first recommendation stand though, get out and away from the computer and meet real women. If you do decide to go this way, make sure you are looking at real potential relationships where there is a very good chance of actually meeting the person and not just wasting hours of your time online when you could be meeting real women and sleeping with them.