How can I get a Girlfriend

Seducing woman is not as difficult as you might think with a few simple techniques and tips you can be seducing some of the most beautiful women in the world. When you look at a really beautiful woman in a crowd you will see she gets lots of attention purely because of her looks. Think about it, how would she look on your arm walking into a party? Better yet, how would she look in your bed? Now know every other guy in the room that is straight is thinking the same thing and at some level or other wants to be with her. Some will try, others will think she is ‘out of their league’ and not even take a punt.

Since every guy is going to try to seduce her what is your edge? Well to be honest most guys are terrible at it.  What if I told you that without a lot of effort, you can have her chasing you?  You don’t have to be a rock star, captain of the football team, you don’t ever have to be all that good looking. As long as your looks are average and you don’t have drool running down your chin or a face that looks like it was run over by a Mac truck, you can be with her.

First of all and as I keep saying in this blog, if you don’t try, you will never win. You have nothing, absolutely nothing, to loose by trying.  If you are the guy that thinks she is ‘out of your league’ and therefore doesn’t try, you are definitely not going to be sleeping with her.  If on the other hand you take a punt and miss, you won’t be sleeping with her but at least you tried. However taking that shot gives you a chance that you will never have if you don’t try. What’s the worst that can happen here? She tells you to f*** off? So what? I am sure you have been told that before. So even if you go home alone tonight, who would you rather be, the guy that sat in the corner and never tried, or the guy that took a kick and missed? Me, I’m going to take a shot at it. You can two if you follow a few simple steps it will increase your chances immensely.

Now you must understand that women do not care about looks as much as men do, sure they will look at a good looking guy, but they are much more concerned with emotional attachment then looks. Don’t believe me? Why do guys stare at porn and women read romance novels? Emotions.

Step 1 in How to Seduce a Women:

Stand out from the crowd. Differentiate yourself from everyone else,  no one remembers the ordinary guy. My preference to differentiate is generally to dress better then everyone else in the room.  Take care with this, make sure your shoes are clean or polished, your shirt is pressed, your nails are filed and clean, your hair is cut and neat. I am not saying wear a three piece suit, but make sure you are dressed a little better then everyone else.

Step 2 in How to Seduce a Woman

Be the alpha male in the room. Be the dominate self confident and in control man in the room. This isn’t as difficult as you think, the cloths will help a lot for you to feel superior to everyone else. Keep your shoulders back, your head held up, look people in the eye.  Speak confidently and only talk about things you know about. Keep your emotions in check and remember you have nothing to loose and everything to gain.

Step 3 in How to Seduce a Woman

Stop being funny and start being sexual. Whoever said that if you can make a woman laugh you could get her in bed was an idiot and didn’t score much. Stop telling jokes and start listening to her, when she talks listen to her like she is the only person in the world do not turn to your friends when she talks to you and if one is being persistent trying to get your attention, say “excuse me” turn to your friend and say “I am busy here, is it important or can we deal with it later?” Make her feel more important then the other people around you.  Look her straight in the eye.

Step 4 in How to Seduce a Woman

Do not compliment her verbally, ever, until after you have slept with her. If you say “You look beautiful” you just told her that you are interested in her for her looks.  Everyone is interested in her for her looks and she wants something more.

Step 5 in How to Seduce a Woman

Shut up and listen. One thing that very few people ever do is actually listen to other people, pay attention to what she says, do not brag about yourself, do not try to impress her, every other guy is doing that and you need to differentiate yourself from them.  Everyone loves to talk to someone who will listen to them, I mean truly genuinely listen and be interested.

Step 6 in How to Seduce a Woman

Tell her as little about yourself as possible. Women love intrigue as soon as they think they have you figured out it is game over.  She will get bored and go looking for excitement in someone else. Be mysterious. Don’t out right lie but don’t be to free with your life story, when asked about ex-girlfriends answer with something like. “I have had a few”. When asked about what you do for work “I work at a software company” Then drop it and move the conversation back to getting her to talk about herself. Do not brag, do not tell her how great you are, let her come to though conclusions herself and be mysterious.

There is more to it then these 6 tips, however it is a good start. So go out there and seduce a few women, you’ll get shot down a few times but so what. If you don’t try you always loose, if you try and strike out pay attention to why you did and learn from it. If your worried about your friends laughing at you because you got shot down, look at them, I bet their not even trying and when you do pull a 10 and they all see you heading back to your apartment with her, how long you think they are going to remember you striking out last week?

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