How can I get a Girlfriend

You want to know how to talk to a woman?

We have two ears and one mouth, so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.

What does this mean?

When you are trying to pick up a girl and hopefully find a girlfriend or at least a booty call the last thing she is going to want to do is hear about how great you are. 90% of guys I see that fail with picking up women are trying to impress them, telling stories about how great they are etc.

You want to really impress the woman you are trying to sleep with? Listen to her. I am going to repeat that LISTEN TO HER.

Very few women will of ever met a man who is truly willing to listen to them, and pay attention to them. Everyone, women and men will love speaking to a person who truly listens to them.  I have picked up women with hardly talking at all, just let them talk and show real interest in what they say.

What does everyone like talking about the most?

Think about the answer to this and ask yourself “what do I like to talk about the most?” Predominately the answer is YOU. Your no different then the vast majority of the population. If you can listen to people with true interest and then comment on what they have said you are already light years ahead of the rest of the guys trying to pick up the same girl.

A huge pitfall that many guys will fall into is asking a question, for instance. “What kind of car do you drive?” She will tell you then an hour later you ask the same question again. What did you just tell her? That you did not pay attention and listen to her the first time you asked.

Most people are so involved in themselves and their needs they don’t really listen to anyone, when someone is talking they are not listening even if they are being quiet, they are thinking about what they are going to say next. If you do this you just put yourself into the same category as all the other guys who are going to be going home alone tonight and surfing porn on the internet.

If you want to build a genuine relationship with the lady, even if it is only for one night you can do it by being genuinely interested in what they are telling you. Everyone is interested in something and everyone is passionate about something, if you can find out what a persons passion is and then listen to them tell you about it and be honestly interested you are already leaps and bounds ahead of everyone else trying to get her in bed.

So now you know the simplest way of putting yourself ahead of 90% of the worlds population.  Shut up and listen. Be genuinely interested in what she has to say, and comment pointedly on it, if you know nothing about the topic use the opportunity to learn something new.  For example;

You meet a woman and start talking to her, you ask her what she likes to do on the weekends? She tells you she likes downhill skiing, you were raised in California and have never seen snow in your life. So how do you join into a conversation about downhill skiing? You don’t you let her talk.

“Wow I have never been skiing, I wish I could try it sometime, how did you learn to ski and how long did it take? Where is your favorite slope, and why is it better then the other ones?” If you do this right you could be sitting there listening to her for a considerable amount of time saying very little.  When you do part she will tell everyone that she had the greatest conversation of her life.

Remember, everyone loves talking about themselves and what they like, no one is really interested in listening to someone brag. Be the ear for a woman to talk into and you are on the fast track to getting into her panties.